Grandpa Poppers

Saturday, October 25, 2014

William Bernell Barrett - My Brother - March 11, 1939 to October 3, 2014

On October 3, 2014 after a bout 6 months of decline due to a Brain Tumor, my Brother, William Bernell (Bernie) Barrett passed away.  A Graveside Service was held at Mountain View Cemetery in Pocatello, Idaho on October 18 at 10:00 am. The service was far better than I could have anticipated. I will not try an elaborate, but will post his Eulogy here and links to a recording off the service and comments that were posted on face book or in cards. To My Family Members, this was worth attending to hear the impact one humble and cheerful person, who some would call odd, can have.

Obituary

William Bernell Barrett’s Euology by Dennis Barrett, his Brother
October 18, 2014

William Bernell Barrett was born in Idaho Falls March 11, 1939 to a loving Mother, Lola Barrett and Father, Afton Barrett.  Afton Barrett was the coach at Ammon High School at the time, but his career over the next several years moved Lola and Bernell to Montpelier Idaho, Park City Utah, Tremonton Utah, and Shelly Idaho.  After living in smaller towns and rural areas, when Bernell was 8, they moved to Pocatello, Idaho.  At first he did not like living there.  As he put it in his personal history, he felt "that people  sensed less safety and neighborliness".   At the age of 9, a new sister, JoAnn was born in the car while visiting Grandma Reed in Ammon Idaho..  At the age of 12, a little brother, Dennis was born in Pocatello.

Being 12 years younger than Bernell, or Bernie, as family and friends call him, I had little knowledge of his early years.  For that I am going to refer to some of his own writings that I discovered as I cleaned out the house a few months ago, and then later in the program, any who knew him during those years are welcome to share additional stories.

Bernell was always active and involved, and as a young boy, he was my Idol.
Basketball was one thing that Bernell loved, having learned it from his coach father. His sophomore year at Pocatello High School, he was the starting center on the Basketball team that won the state championship.   I believe, however, that he only played for the high school for one or two years, but remember seeing pictures and trophies in the church trophy case where they won several tournaments and placed 4th place in the LDS  All Church tournament that they held in those days.

Later in life, Bernell would frequently open the church for others to come and play basketball, which he also played until he was about 60, and after that he still opened the building for a few years, and loved the associations.

As a Senior in high school, Bernell was elected Student Body President of Pocatello High School. The one thing that he was most proud of during that time, which he mentioned to me several times during the last year, was that he succeeded in getting the school to start all student body meetings and events with a prayer.  


Bernell was always great at making things work.  
I remember an old blue 1948 Chevy, I believe, that he had bought and in which he had installed  a diesel engine.  I remember one of his hobbies was to build and fly remote control airplanes.  These planes, painstakingly built out of a balsa wood frame and then covered with lacquered tissue and paint had 4 ft wingspans and would soar high and far enough that you could hardly see them.  We would frequently go to model airplane shows where Bernie and others would show off and fly their planes.  Unfortunately, they would frequently get out of range of the radio transmitter and he would loose control. I remember one time, the plan crashed into the face of Red Hill.   One day after loosing his 3rd or 4th plane, he was extremely frustrated and, from what I was  told, took all of his planes and equipment and threw them in the river.

After high school, Bernell attended ISU Vo-Tech training and became very good at repairing electronics.  He worked at this off and on most of his life taking on things that others would not or could not repair all across town.  

He frequently repaired his own and his mother's cars, even rebuilding transmissions and engines several times to keep them running long past what others would have considered their natural life.   One time, Linda and I came back to Pocatello and on our way across town, stopped behind a black Volkswagen bug at the stop light.  We looked at the back of the car, and noticed a pan hanging underneath the rear of the car, with a tube running down to it.  Later we discovered, that Bernell had developed an oil leak, and had fashioned a pan to catch the oil, and a pump to recycle the oil back into the engine.  I am not sure how he kept the dirt out, but I am sure he probably had it being pumped through some kind of filter.

Bernell had a strong desire to work and serve.  
At age 11 he delivered the morning Salt Lake Tribune, which he enjoyed.  At the age of 12, he took a job stocking shelves, sweeping, and delivering for a drug store.  When a freshman in High School, he worked at one of the two fast food places in Pocatello, Davis's Root Beer stand by Hollowall Baseball Park.  (I remember it as the A&W root beer with frosted mugs.  Now I know why at the age of about 4 we would frequently go to get root beer.)  His sophomore year, he worked part time as a janitor for the new Woolworth's store.  His junior and senior years he drove on a patrol for the County Weed Control Department, covering every county road three times during the summers.  He loved to see the farmers and the rural areas of the county.  

At the age of 21, Bernell was called to serve a two and a half year mission to South Germany.  While the work was hard, Bernell loved the people of Germany and worked hard to serve the Lord.  His mission was an extension of his love for the Lord that started when he was very young and wasthe foundation of his life and personal nature.

A pivotal event
Shortly after returning from his mission to Germany, our Father was told that he had Pancreatic Cancer and had less than 6 months to live, and did pass away later that year.  During the last year, Bernell explained to me that had a very hard time with faithful LDS doctors simply making this statement.  To Bernell this was a lack of faith.  He believed that Dad could be healed, if we had enough faith.  This truly upset him, and caused him to have a very difficult few years, in which he also was required to receive medical care.  

For a few years, Bernell went and lived in Salt Lake City and worked at several different jobs around Southern Idaho.   Shortly before our Mother, Lola, was afflicted with Alzheimer's disease, Bernell returned home and began to to care for her.  He would take her for walks and make sure she was fed and comfortable, up until the time she passed away.  

In 1988 he returned to college attending ISU and graduated in 1991 with a degree in Elementary Education to follow the path of his father and many other members of our family who had been teachers.  He used this degree to serve as a substitute teacher in almost every Elementary School, Jr. High School, and Sr. High School in the Pocatello / Chubbock area.  He loved to teach.  He loved the people that he worked with.  He loved the students.  He loved to go to school events and see many of his students perform in the arts and athletics. He frequently would take older Ward Members to some of these events.   He taught for over 18 years prior to retiring.  I have rarely gone anywhere in Pocatello, that a student has not recognized Bernell and come up to talk to him. Recently, while in the Assisted Living Center and Nursing Centers, he had medical care providers who has also been his students.  We have known several missionaries from Pocatello that when asked , immediately recognized Bernell Barrett by name as one of their teachers.   

When we were moving things out of the house a few months ago, his neighbors all came over and expresses sincere concern and gratitude for being his neighbor and related times where he would go out of his way to be of service to them.

In the last year, Bernell developed a Brain Tumor and had several incidents of falling.  During that time, he developed some paranoia and started to think that we wanted to take his home away from him, and once got quite angry.  But even in this situation, during the last few times that I saw him, he would smile and say "I choose to overlook everything"  

Bernell had a knowledge and conviction of the God's plan of Happiness.  I am comforted to know that he is now free of the limitations and illness that his mortal body imposed, and is able to be re-united with his Mother and Father and other relatives who he loved dearly enough to go and dress their graves multiple times a year in this cemetery.  This was one of Bernell's favorite places to walk, because of his love for his family.  I am certain that he is now walking with them in a more happy place.




Monday, November 23, 2009

Carters day with Granparents


This last Friday night Linda and I had our second scheduled weekend with
individual Granchildren. Carter came and spent Friday night and most of
Saturday. Friday night we had pepperoni pizza and took in a late movie(8pm
start). We saw Planet 51. It was very entertaining and Carter stayed
awake through the whole show, while Grandma, having a long day of service
and shoppong with Kelly, fell asleep.
Saturday morning Carter woke up at about 6:30 and started putting puzzles
together. We had pancakes for breakfast, wrestled, played video games,
played chess, played a little basketball, went to 5 Guys Burgers and Fries
for lunch, painted a ceramic Dragon (to be fired this week), played
battleship, and played more chess. It was lots of fun. I want these
experiences with all of my Granchldren.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

A Favorite Christmas Present from my Childhood

As a child of about 8 or 9 years old, we did not have video games.  Our play was imaginary but exciting.  The two primary types of programming in movies and on TV were Westerns and War Movies.   Every young boy would imagine himself a cowboy or even a gunslinger.  One of my favorite gifts of all time was a matching set of Mattel Shootin' Shell 45 cap pistols.   These were very authentic revolver like pistols that had spring loaded shells with plastic bullets.  A cap was placed on the rear of the casing.  As a realistic revolver, 6 shells could be loaded.  When the shells were loaded, the gun could be fired either by pulling the trigger, or by fanning on the oversized cocking mechanism.   A firing pin would strike the cap and make the bang sound, and the plastic bullet would be launched through the barrel about 15 feet with some accuracy.   Such guns would never be tolerated today.   They were way too realistic.   But that was a different time.

In my imagination, I would face down another gun slinger and draw.   I was pretty good.   I would even imagine myself participating as my favorite song would come on the radio  El Paso by Marty Robbins.   Of course it was the gun fighting that was the attraction, not the girly stuff. 

  In one of my favorite episodes of Bat Masterson one of the characters pulled out a small derringer (small concealed single shot gun)  

My Shootin Shell holster came with a  belt buckle, that had a derringer as part of the design.   When you would stick out your stomach, the derringer was released and would swivel out and fire one of the shootin' shell bullets.  THIS WAS THE COOLEST THING EVER!!

ShootinShell 45 with Derringer

Saturday, November 14, 2009

The Small Plates of Dennis

Take this link to view the small plates. blog,

From the Book if Jacob Chapter 1 of the Book of Mormon

1 FOR behold, it came to pass ....wherefore, Nephi gave me, Jacob, a acommandment concerning the bsmall plates, upon which these things are engraven.

2 And he gave me, Jacob, a commandment that I should awrite upon bthese plates a few of the things which I considered to be most precious; ....

4 And if there were preaching which was asacred, or revelation which was great, or prophesying, that I should engraven the bheads of them upon these plates, and touch upon them as much as it were possible, for Christ’s sake, and for the sake of our people.

    Like Jacob, it is my wish to write and share with my family and my posterity the important spiritual and sacred experiences of my life. 

    1. That they may know that I have a testimony of the Lord Jesus Christ and of his role in the loving plan of our Father in Heave to help us to become like him and have all that he has.
    2. That they might know of the spiritual experiences that have built that testimony
    3. That they may see how I have learned and do continue to learn of my Father in Heaven and his plan for us and how it relates to our lives. 

    These are the more sacred experienced of my life as I remember them and as they currently occur.    A private blog will permit me an easier media than engraving it on plates or even writing them on paper.    I pray that as you receive these words, that you will take the time to consider them for yourself and prayerfully consider their value and truthfulness.  

    Moro. 10: 4-5

      4 And when ye shall receive these things, I would exhort you that ye would aask God, the Eternal Father, in the name of Christ, if these things are not btrue; and if ye shall ask with a csincereheart, with dreal intent, having efaith in Christ, he will fmanifest the gtruth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost.

      5 And by the power of the Holy Ghost ye may aknow the btruth of all things.

    I also ask that since they are sacred to me, that you not share them with just anyone.   My references to scriptures you may share freely, but my experiences should not be shared without permission

    Friday, September 5, 2008

    Reuniting Family

    In August I had a very special experience.  I was reunited with my sister, Jo Ann  twice, and once with two of her children, and their children.

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    On my First Visit, JoAnn and her husband, Clarke Sharar drove down to Ontario, CA to meet for a late lunch.  It was really great seeing her again.  I was shocked by here spiked hair style, since she always has such curly hair, and Clarke was very friendly and outgoing.  I promised that I would return and bring Linda.

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    JoAnn and I                                                               JoAnn and Clarke Sharar

    Only about three weeks later, Linda and I were able to travel to Santa Barbara again for some training.  Linda and I drove to Palm Desert and stayed two nights and spent one entire day with JoAnn and her family.  We had lunch with two of her daughters Tanya and Christina and their children, Nicholas and Mitchell (Tanya's) and  Sydney and Samantha (Christina's).

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    JoAnn, Christina,Samantha, Sydney, Linda Dennis Tanya      Tanya with Mitchell,(Nicholas was sleeping),Christina with Samantha and Sydney

    I was overwhelmed by their openness and acceptance of an Uncle and Great Uncle they had met only once or less.  I felt totally guilty for being so self involved for  years.  They seemed  anxious to know family members.  I realized that there was a real hole in my life, and that we had left a hole in their life also.  For all of these years, they had a knowledge that they had family members out there, but had a large gap.  Visiting with them, made me realize that I missed years of loving these beautiful Nieces and Great Nieces and Nephews.  That my children had missed out on knowing and loving their wonderful cousins.  Likewise, Tanya and Christine had missed out as well. 

    I will not make this mistake again.  I am very grateful for the opportunity to meet them once, and intend on getting to know them better.  I am starting by sharing this blog and those of our family (below) with JoAnn who can share it with her daughters.  This will give them an opportunity to get a glimpse in to the lives of their extended family.  I will a couple are open to invited members only, so I will ask them to invite JoAnn and as I get e-mail addresses Sonya, Tanya and Christina. 

    I love my immediate family that has been extended with sons and daughters in law and grandchildren.  I also love my sister an her children and grandchildren that I am just beginning to know.  I am sorry I cheated us out of all of this time.

    My Family and their Blogs

     

    My oldest daughter - Emily Mcammon and her husband Shane - Adana Turkey

    http://mccammonblog.blogspot.com/

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    My second daughter - Kelly Babcock and her husband Mike

    http://thebabcockchronicals.blogspot.com/

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    My oldest son - Scott Barrett and his wife Jentry - Lincoln, Nebraska

    http://cumulativerecord.blogspot.com/

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    My third daughter - Ellen Wheat and her husband Kevin

    http://mini-wheats.blogspot.com/

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    My youngest - David Barrett - Nicaragua - It is hard to get a picture of him without him pulling a face.

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    Monday, June 16, 2008

    Happy Fathers Day

    Yesterday was Fathers day, but today I received the cards in the mail.  Of course Linda gave me her cards on Fathers Day, and I did get calls from all of my children that were able (David of course does not get to call on Fathers day, only on MOTHERS day).  I thought I would share the cards with everyone. 

    Mom gave me two cards:

    • One plays "Just the Two of Us" song over and over, like she has to remind me that we are empty nesters and no one lives near by.  We were sooo lonely we went for a 4 hour drive with "Just the Two of Us" - Mom was really tolerant in riding on mountain roads that shook her arm and shoulder.
    • In the other card she tells me that if she hadn't married me she could have found someone else to drive nuts, but that she is nuts about me.

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    Kevin and Ellen take the Crude Award.  Of course it fits right in with our family humor.

     

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    Kelly and Mike sent the Mid-life Crisis card.  However, my mid life crisis was 10 years ago.  I am now in declining life panic mode. 

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    Madison, Carter and Brooke sent the Gramp Award card.  I really like how Brooke made me look nice and thin and with lots of hair. That is so nice!

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    All I can say is Linda, Emily, Kelly, Scott, Ellen, and David make me look like a great Dad. Keep it up!  I know that you were all great spirits and it was a blessing to receive all of you in my family. 

    My Tag Response

    Liam here are the answers to your questions


    4 Places I go over and over:
    1. My office upstairs in our home
    2. Home Depot
    3. Church
    4. The Airport

    4 who email me:
    1. Over 100 from many people at work a day.
    2. Elder David Barrett
    3. Linda
    4. A lot of weirdos on the Internet who send SPAM

    4 Of my favorite foods:
    1. Chocolate chip mint ice cream
    2. RASBERRIES AND BLACK BERRIES
    3. Stone crab claws in Florida
    4. Tacos al Pastor in Mexico

    4 Places I would rather be right now:
    1. On a clear mountain stream fly fishing
    2. In Turkey with the McCammons and my grand children that I miss soooooo much!
    3. Anywhere with my children and/or grand children (Turkey, San Antonio, Logan/Lincoln, Rexburg, Nicaragua?
    4. Riding my bicycle on a quiet road either going downhill or with a wind to my back

    4 Movies I watch over and over again:
    1. Back to the Future
    2. Meet the Parents
    3. Harry Potter 4
    4. The Incredibles

    4 People I am tagging:
    1. Kevin Wheat
    2. Ellen Wheat
    3. Emily McCammon
    4. Jentry Barrett